[2011] KEHC 1090 (KLR)
The court found that, despite not believing all of the Petitioner’s evidence, there was sufficient proof that the Respondent had been cruel by shouting at and embarrassing the Petitioner in public. The parties had not shared the matrimonial bed since 2004, indicating a complete breakdown of the marital relationship....
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- Citation
- [2011] KEHC 1090 (KLR)
- Parties
- Petitioner: Y.H.; Respondent: N.M.
- Court
- High Court
- Court Station
- High Court at Nairobi (Milimani Law Courts)
- Jurisdiction
- Kenya
- Case Number
- Divorce Cause 26 of 2010
- Procedural Posture
- Divorce Petition / Judgment
- Outcome
- Petition allowed. Marriage dissolved.
- Judges
- DK Maraga
- Legal Topics
- Divorce, Cruelty, Irretrievable Breakdown, Matrimonial Disputes
- Source Language
- en
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Parties
Y.H.
Petitioner
N.M.
Respondent
Procedural Posture
Divorce Petition / Judgment
Legal Issues
- 1 Whether the Respondent was cruel to the Petitioner, justifying dissolution of marriage.
- 2 Whether the marriage has irretrievably broken down.
- 3 Whether the Petitioner is entitled to a decree of divorce.
Ratio Decidendi
The court found that, despite not believing all of the Petitioner’s evidence, there was sufficient proof that the Respondent had been cruel by shouting at and embarrassing the Petitioner in public. The parties had not shared the matrimonial bed since 2004, indicating a complete breakdown of the marital relationship. The court concluded that the marriage had irretrievably broken down and that the Respondent’s desire to keep the marriage alive was punitive rather than genuine. Accordingly, the court allowed the petition and ordered the dissolution of the marriage.
Court Disposition
Petition allowed. Marriage dissolved.
Orders
- A decree nisi shall issue forthwith to be made absolute after 30 days.
- Each party shall bear its own costs.
Full Case Text
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15 paragraphs
Y.H.......................................................................................................................................PETITIONER
VERSUS
N.M...................................................................................................................................RESPONDENT
JUDGMENT
The parties to this cause married on 29th July 1994 at the Registrar of Marriages Office in Nairobi. They thereafter lived and cohabited in Nairobi in Kenya and in in Ethiopia. They have not been blessed with a child.
In his petition for divorce, the Petitioner accused the Respondent of cruelty. He averred that since the celebration of their marriage the Respondent has shown willful neglect and utter contempt of their marriage; has been nagging him and always demanding for money; threatened to cause the Petitioner’s deportation from Kenya; interfered with the Petitioner’s business meeting; hidden the Petitioner’s mobile phone and the car keys thereby causing him serious inconvenience and denied the Petitioner his conjugal rights by deserting matrimonial bedroom.
Upon being served the Respondent filed answer to petition in which she denied all the allegations of cruelty terming them vague and baseless. She averred that if anything it is the Petitioner who had been cruel to her by shouting at her, assaulting her, deserting the matrimonial home and living her without any means of support.
At the hearing the Petitioner testified that in the 1990s when they were living in Ethiopia, the Respondent used to shout at and call him maraya and dog and throw things around in the house. She refused to cook for him and whenever he went home late she quarreled him. He said the most embarrassing thing she did to him was forcing him to introduce her to a female client whom she thought he had an affair with. He eventually lost that client and the business. On several occasions he was forced to leave the matrimonial home and sleep elsewhere so that he could go to work the following day. In cross examination he denied being on the internet throughout and sparing no time for the Respondent.
On her part the Respondent denied the allegations of cruelty against her and reiterated the contents of her answer to the petition. She said she found out that the Respondent was communicating with other women on the internet and one of those women actually told her that the Petitioner wants to divorce her so that they can marry. Having been with her for all this while she said it is unfair for the Petitioner to leave her high and dry and get married to another woman. In the circumstances, even though they are no longer living together, she urged me to dismiss this petition with costs.
I have read the pleadings and considered the testimony tendered by both parties.
The Respondent herself admitted that their marriage has not been a happy one. She said because of his conduct of at times sleeping out of the matrimonial home, she had no alternative but suspect the Petitioner of extra marital activities.
Though I do not believe some of the Petitioner’s evidence I am satisfied that the Respondent has been cruel to him by shouting at him and embarrassing him in public. The parties having not shared the matrimonial bed since 2004. I am satisfied that their marriage has irretrievably broken down. The Respondent’s desire to keep it alive is meant to punish the Petitioner. That cannot be allowed. In the circumstances I allow this petition and dissolve the marriage between the Petitioner and the Respondent. A decree nisi shall issue forthwith to be made absolute after 30 days. Each party shall bear its own costs.
DATED and delivered this 13th day of July 2011.
D.K. MARAGA
JUDGE